Step by Step
Firstly, read my website. Make note of what I offer. Where and why. I am not right for everyone, because not everyone is right for me. This is very sincere endeavor for me and I pour my authentic self into every date I have. Some people prefer a more impersonal, purely physical encounter, and while I respect that- it’s not me.
Secondly, view my calendar and then fill out a visitor’s form.
Thirdly, my assistant will confirm that you are screened & your desired meeting time is available, please choose among the options presented to submit your deposit. Once this is done, we are all set and on our way to meeting!
Fourthly, directions to my studio will be sent to you the day before our meeting. Please read the instructions for arriving at my incall and please follow them. I promise, nothing about what I require or how I conduct my business is arbitrary. Everything is for our mutual safety and comfort and I thank you for respecting all my requests and instructions. My phone number will be included if you need a little extra guidance.
Fifthly, please come in, accept my offer to shower, leaving your donation in an unsealed envelope on the counter for me before doing so. Forgetting to do so or asking me “how much again?”, will put us in an uncomfortable place to start our time together and might result in my asking you to leave. I also appreciate you putting your phone on airplane mode once you’re with me. We don’t need the distraction of the outside world while we are together.
Finally, leave all expectations behind and prepare to be completely enraptured! We are each other’s and have no other cares during this time & I couldn’t be happier to be sharing it with you.
Lastly, hug me, kiss me, bid farewell and tuck your memories just made, somewhere safe and sweet to replay in your mind …until we meet again.
Screening
Would you like me to spend time with you in private? Awesome! I’d like that too. However, in order to hold everyone accountable for their conduct, my safety & my time-I absolutely insist on knowing who it is I will be spending time with. The details and depth between us can flow organically when we meet, but below is a list of non-negotiable requirements I ask of all my suitors. Rest assured, your privacy is of the utmost importance to me. Violating it in any way does me and my practice a grave disservice. Feel comforted in knowing that anyone else who visits my incall has been equally screened and that my life is full of only the best and most respectful people as a result.
Screening first time presentation should include:
-Who you are (real name and at least one way to verify this. Linkedin is great, but I’m flexible).
-Approximate age. No preference here, it just helps me know a bit about who I am to expect.
-Any medical conditions or allergies I should be aware of—if you want.
Not comfortable with online screening? No problem, see “Alternative Screening” below.
Who are you? The Curiosity & Trust Factor
I am a provider of sensual bodywork and companionship based in Seattle. I have a fresh and vibrant passion for what I do, coupled with a great deal of experience. Well known and regarded among my peers, I am equally beloved by those who have met me. Sadly, most of our local review boards have gone away, but a few can be found if you look hard enough.
I maintain a twitter account full of my thoughts and frequent amateur snapshots of my life that you’re welcome to follow @AdelleSabatier.
Varying presentations of who I am and what I offer (beyond my website, lest it be not verbose enough for you ;) can be found on Eros, Slixa, Tryst, TNA & P411.
The only feedback I’ve ever received regarding my character or appearance in correlation to what I present digitally is: “you’re even better than I expected”.
Alternative Screening
If you’re not comfortable submitting information online for verification purposes, I offer an in-person option of dining together instead. During this time we can get to know one another and in a very discreet manner, you can tell me who you are and show me your I.d. The requisite 20% deposit still applies.
A fair warning-on nearly every occasion I have offered this, a request of a private time together, following dinner, has occurred. As I will need to verify who you are, once excused from our time together, please remember that all appointment requests outside our meal, will still need to be requested/submitted through my website for a later date. Plan accordingly.
You may begin our time together by offering your donation in a book, a gift bag or an empty coffee cup. No envelopes please.
Screening breakfast/lunch/dinner:
Up to 90 mins/$500
Provider References-I will accept references from women you have seen only if they are on my list of recommended colleagues (see: Colleagues page), as a form of verification. Please do not send me anyone else’s information.
Couples & Women
With rare exception, I do not entertain couples or offer sessions for women. I am happy to refer you to a number of ladies who do. If you are absolutely certain that I am the only one for you, you may write to me explaining why.
Fly Me to You
“FMTY” I travel to many other cities frequently, but if you simply cannot wait, I welcome you to, quite literally, fly me to you! Like ordering a pizza but one million times better ;) If you do not see your city on my calendar, please do not write to me asking if or when I will be there unless you are interested in a FMTY option.
Requirements:
-A minimum of a five hour date or compensation equivalent
-A $1500* flat rate to cover my hotel, transportation and airfare, excluding my “preferred” cities, see below.
-A non-refundable deposit of 20% of my total trip** is required before I will commit my time to seeing you. If I must cancel for any reason, your deposit will be returned immediately.
The remainder of the donation for our time is politely requested, electronically or in an unsealed envelope when we first meet. It’s a splash of cold water needing to ask, when I’d much rather just begin our time together. Left discreetly in the powder room upon my arrival is perfect.
-Please know that if you have not already screened or offered me adequate notice, I won’t consider your proposal
-You’re also welcome to request that you be emailed when I will be in your city of my own accord
-*Charlotte, Pittsburgh, Seattle, Portland, Los Angeles, New Orleans and the home base of any of my listed duo partners (if booking a duo with us) are cities I will accept invitations for a a four hour minimum date and flat $1000 travel stipend.
**My airline ticket cost, hotel room, travel stipend + 20% of the total donation are all required prior to our plans being “confirmed”. If you request a date and do not follow through with these considerations in a reasonable time frame, I will not hold the time you have requested and may make other arrangements.
Deposits
Deposits are requested to hold space and time for us once you have requested to see me.
20% of the total donation for our time together is required before your appointment is confirmed. This is verify your commitment to our time together, as well as to acknowledge that you are aware of the expected total donation, so there is no misunderstanding upon our meeting.
Missed appointments are very financially detrimental in my industry, particularly as I see only a small, select number of patrons. A great amount of unseen preparation is undertaken for every planned visit and is not quickly replaced, nor done so without a loss. For this reason, all deposits are non-refundable. Lest life or illness interfere with our plans, I offer one reschedule free of charge, within a month’s time, within my listed availability. If you need to reschedule that appointment too, a new deposit will be required.
Rescheduling/Canceling with less than 72 hours notice = forfeiture of your deposit.
Rescheduling/Canceling with less than 48 hours notice = forfeiture of your deposit + 25% of the total donation for our scheduled time together
Rescheduling/Canceling with less than 24 hours notice = forfeiture of your deposit + 50% of the total donation for our scheduled time together
No shows = 100% total donation cancellation fee + Payment in full to rebook in the future
*All cancellation fees to be paid at time of cancellation, regardless of rescheduling. Not honoring my policy will result in blacklisting.*
—In the event, for any reason, that I cannot make our appointment, your deposit will be returned to you immediately, per your preferred method, or applied to a future date if you prefer. I will never assume the latter as the default and take maintaining the integrity of my system and my practice very seriously.
Same Day Appointments
*As of October/2020 I am implementing a $500 same day convenience fee for those seeking same day appointments.
I’m always happy to meet up when it works out, but it is more work and stress than having notice and I greatly appreciate your acknowledging this with this small tip.
Please honor my time, and also allow my anticipation for our interlude together to build, by booking in advance.
You schedule your haircuts, doctors appointments and meetings in advance, prioritize your own pleasure with the same consideration. You absolutely deserve it.
My calendar sometimes fills days/weeks in advance, so this is also just wise.
On the very rare occasions I am offering same day availability, I will post on twitter - you can follow me here
*If we have met before or if you have consistently booked in advance and are passionately desiring to see me same day, you’re welcome to ask if I might be free. Please do not make a habit of it and most importantly, recognize that the likelihood I will be available to see you on short notice, is small. And then I’ll just be sad I am missing you.
FBSM - What is it?
Fbsm, or full body sensual massage, is a service wherein the recipient disrobes & is treated to a hot oil massage, from head to toe. Full and total relaxation will be achieved through a number of applied manual techniques, as well as breath work and a soothing ambiance. I can customize this session to be as therapeutic or restorative as needed, switching easily between firm to featherlight touch.
During this time together, please expect only unidirectional touch. My fbsm sessions are about receiving ONLY. If your interest or expectation is mutual touch, please see my other offerings. This means that I touch you, you do not touch me.
These sessions are intimate and erotic, but are an experience unto themselves. They should not be booked in place of a date, if they will not meet your personal needs and expectations.
I will not change the course or nature of your selected way to spend our time together, for a number of reasons. If you would like to visit in a different capacity than the one you’ve chosen, I would happily welcome you back at another scheduled time.
Are you kink/BDSM friendly?
No. However, I’m happy to refer you to any number of extremely talented women who are.
Social Time
Sometimes your needs might be purely social. Whether you need a date to a wedding, someone to beat at video games or perhaps you want to see if we are compatible before booking an appointment. My affections will be warm during our time together, but platonic.
Social time:
My rates for social time are exactly the same as those for my other offerings. As requests are for my time and not what happens during it, I do not differentiate based on the activities designated during our date.
Where are you located/Incall
I maintain a convenient, beautifully appointed apartment in Seattle exclusively for this sector of my life. This allows us to enjoy each other away from the rest our mundane commitments and obligations. It is located in the Belltown neighborhood and is easily accessed from 99 or i5. As all the frills and accouterments needed for us to have a good time are set up here, and for this reason, I greatly prefer that you come to me when possible.
Client Requirements
Your race, nationality, body type, age, background, appearance and ableness are of no consequence to me. I welcome and love all types of people.
All I ask for is kindness, respect and discretion. Read my website, respect my boundaries, time and policies, communicate when in doubt, honor my donations accurately and without prompting.
Please read about hygiene below.
This magical world I’ve created doesn’t work without playmates! Come play with me and lets celebrate our uniqueness …together.
Hygiene
When we meet up, I will offer you a shower. This is not optional, no matter how recently you have showered. There will be mouthwash for you to use, please do so. Avoid wearing any cologne that I can smell without hugging you. Stubble hurts our faces, gentlemen, please vie for either freshly shaved or a few days grow out (or full beard if you sport one). Personally I don’t mind those who go antiperspirant free. Artificial smells-aftershave, dusting powders etc. bother me a great deal more than natural person smell, particularly fresh from the shower. If we are meeting at your place, take the time to wash your hands if you’re already showered.
Fingernails and toenails: Please keep them tidy and short to avoid scratching me, I’ve had it happen it’s a huge mood killer-and painful!
I’m going to say it-and I’m going to say it plainly- and in reading this, perhaps will be sent gifts and praise from women around the world.
For the number of times someone has exited a long, hot, and deeply cleansing shower and amazed me with their unfulfilled cleanliness there: men, if you haven’t touched the area between your butt cheeks with your hands- it’s not clean. The end.
For the Ladies
If you’re reading this it means you have taken an interest in me *blush*. I hope you found my website interesting and inspiring. I have an incredible wealth of experience in this field and am happy to be able call myself a “standard setter” in regard to many things pertaining to this industry, over the years. That said, my practice will forever be a work in progress, as is Adelle.
~If you’re visiting or live in Chicago or if you see I’m in your town, please feel free to reach out to me on twitter! I’m highly social and love having girl time whenever the opportunity presents itself.
~References. I only provide client references to ladies I have met & trust. This is my prerogative, far from arbitrary and I appreciate you for respecting my wishes.
~Duos. If you’re interested in doing a duo together, because I piqued your interest or a gentleman suggested it, I would like to meet you socially before that occurs. I prefer to work with those who have the same ideals in their practice that I do.
~New provider mentorship. I will be launching a consulting branch of my practice whenever it is that I near my retirement. As I do not believe this work is meant for everyone, letters of application will be required.
Reviews
I welcome any honest and tasteful (not graphic) reviews you would like to post of our time together, on national or local review boards or sites. Remember that your reviews give form to what other people will expect in their time with me, please make sure that the accounts you’re giving acknowledge that.
Who is your assistant? What if I want to communicate
with you directly?
Rose is a highly educated and well spoken lady whom I have entrusted the most sensitive parts of my life. I do not have a randomly hired assistant, I have this one specifically and for a reason. She’s well versed in the industry and my practice and in touch with me daily, so all your inquiries and questions are answered appropriately. Please respect and utilize Rose’s help and direction, she is here to make our time together as seamless as possible.
If you wish to ask me something, feel free, I do look over everything going on in my inbox, daily. The same goes for sending thank you notes etc. I only ask that you understand my response time is contingent on my availability. It might take a while for me to find time to answer you as I would like. This is why I have an assistant!
Wishlists/Gifts
I have a strong idea of what I feel my time is worth, at this point in my trajectory. My rates are set to make my offerings and time feel valued and appreciated. I do not ever expect tips. I would much rather see someone I get along with, for another appointment, than be given a monetary tip. That said, I try to practice being gracious in all things, including being shown gratitude in tangible ways.
If you’re inclined to gift giving, I do have a wishlist on my linktree. If you would like to see me wearing something specific, an outfit or underpinnings, please feel free to send it to me before our appointment. This is also a lovely way to help prep my wardrobe before we travel together or to send me gifts for my home or the office (where you can appreciate them!) and generally keep a smile on my face.
Further, my wishlist helps to serve as a sort of insight into my personality and taste. You might discover things about me that you didn’t know, or even things we could enjoy together, in viewing it.